by Coach Tommy Jim Rohn, the famous businessman and self-improvement guru, famously said, “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with, and that means everyone in your life counts.” As a tribal species, we naturally cluster together into groups of like-minded individuals and form communities. Who we surround ourselves with heavily influences what we perceive, our preferences, and our mood. French sociologist, Pierre Bourdieu, refers to this phenomenon as social distinction. This week we have been talking about the power of intrinsic motivation, which allows us to develop long-term habits around whatever it is that we prioritize in our lives. The last component of developing intrinsic motivation is relatedness. To do something that doesn’t require a lot of self-control, you need to feel some socio-cultural connection to it. In other words, you need to find a tribe of like-minded individuals who also want to...
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